I had to do something hard this week.  I had to talk through some past hurts with a very dear friend.  I wish I could say that I was the one who was hurt, but I was not.  I was the one who did the hurting.  It was completely unintentional on my part.  I would never in a million years have wanted to hurt this sweet friend.  But I did.  I offended her with my words.

As mom's, we have a vital role in our communities, our churches and our homes to be the "heart" in these places.  Our words are a powerful tool that we can use for good or for destruction.  Even the simplest of remarks, not given a second thought by you, has the potential to bring years of hurt to a tender soul.  Trust me....I know.

On the other hand thinking before you speak and carefully choosing your words can "give life" to another mother or a growing child.

Have you ever hurt someone unintentionally with your words?  Were you able to bring resolution and forgiveness to the relationship?







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